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Just need to vent (and a small giveaway)
  • I'm absolutely exhausted. I'm an essential worker at not one, but TWO jobs. I had taken 2 weeks off from my full time job for self-isolation, but started back Monday.

    I worked 5-11:30pm at the emergency vet clinic Friday, 11am-9pm Saturday, and 8am-6:30pm Sunday. Monday through Friday at my full time job as a DOD contractor 7:30-4:30, then I work 5-11:30pm after my full time job tomorrow at the vet clinic and again on Saturday. I'm so burned out, guys. My depression has been bad on top of it and I just need y'all to help me cheer up like you're so good at doing. On top of that I'm still heavily grieving my German Shepherd I lost in October and I just don't feel like myself lately. :(

    All that aside, giving back to this community always cheers me up so I will try to find a small present for anyone who comments. Unfortunately it won't be hb's as I'm trying to save up for a GMT project, but I'm hoping to find straws and/or eggs to share.

    I do also want to share some of my projects to cheer me up and make a small brag!

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    ss Hallowed Eve

    *Hoping to make him homozygous Kit M, and homozygous KP2 (unlikely to happen, but it's a wish!)

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    ss Illyrian 1plna

    *Hoping to add Kit M, Splash 3, and Splash M

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    ss Veneti 1plna

    *Same as Illyrian

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    ss Celtic Frost 1nx

    *Hoping to add Splash M and Kit M as well



    (Now you see why I can't give away hb's LOL)
    Post edited by SharayahStables at 2020-04-23 17:42:27
    xhajsig
  • I'm so sorry... :-(( me and my boyfriends job decided they wanted to pay us less but expect more work out of us so we put in our two weeks. We need the rest so badly.

    I understand where you're coming from for sure. I hope that sooner, rather than later, things can return to normal.
  • Wow! I'm not surprised you're feeling burned out. Do try to rest and sleep as much as you can. Being so tired can make it easier to get sick. Sending good thoughts and prayers your way.

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  • Is there anything I can do to help? Sorry you are having such a bad time!

    Hoping normality returns soon as I don’t have a job at all and am also really struggling.

    Let’s share the love <3
    Post edited by DarkFrost at 2020-04-23 17:50:40
    HJ1: 266615
    Licenced for Watercolour, Chinchilla, Diamond Phantom Sparkle, Ice 2, Nacre
  • Thanks guys - it feels good just getting it out in the open. I feel so overworked, exhausted, and downright burned out. I just feel like I'm at my breaking point. Thank goodness for the game, it's the only stress outlet I have right now since I can't even see my horse due to travel restrictions. :(
    xhajsig
  • sending virtual {{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}} and putting you in my prayers ; you ARE essential to the pets you take care of and the people in your life ( including us ) ; stay strong and give yourself a little treat ; whether its just stopping to hear the birds sing for a few minutes in the morning or having an extra cuppa ; allow yourself a few minutes just for YOU every day ; it will help you to stay strong and rejuvenate your soul ; be blessed Sharayah
    Anni9

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  • Thank you very much, @annismyrph. I'd be lying if I said I didn't have a few breakdowns and cry a handful of times, but I'm trying to get through it all. Definitely hit a bit of a rough patch lately.
    xhajsig
  • I feel you. I work in finance supporting tax and legal filings, so we're essential, and being single, living alone, and close to the office, I was kind of volun-told I would be a good choice to be one of the skeleton crew at the office so that we can run the systems and databases that can only be accessed on site. Plus I help out at the barn, working off part of my board/lease/lessons, and that's essential. So all my friends and coworkers are working from home or furloughed, and I know I'm lucky because I'm employed in a relatively recession-proof job, but man, all the stress is adding up rapidly.
    "Coming back to where you started is not the same as never leaving." - PTerry Pratchett
    Breeder of big spot appaloosas with fantasy colors and Kit M.


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  • I’m sorry to hear you’re in the same boat. It’s not easy. :(
    xhajsig
  • First of all, your ponies are so pretty! >:D<

    We are all living in strange times and it is very important to look after our mental health. This game is a great place to do it because you know we are all here for you, even though we can't do anything practical about your situation.

    In an effort to come up with something interesting I thought I would share with you that it is 40 years ago today that I met my husband. His brother-in-law was having a 40th birthday celebration at the social club where we both worked and introduced us. Today is his 80th birthday which is how I know my husband and I met on this day. At the time I remember thinking that 40 was really old. =)) It took a couple of weeks for my now husband to ring me up and ask me out and we got married the following year. Looking back 40 years doesn't seem quite as much as it used to. :)

    I've sent you some hbs so you can treat yourself to something in the game.
    HAJ 1 - WhiteValley #60847 HAJ 3 - minimum #175
    I used to be indecisive, now I'm not so sure.

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  • Aww, that’s so sweet White Valley! And thank you so much for the hb’s. I was able to finish up ss Hallows Eve, so that’s one down! :D

    I’ll send you something shortly!
    xhajsig
  • Thank you for the straws. I've only just started planning for next season's breedings so I can have fun finding some lovely ladies to pair them with.
    HAJ 1 - WhiteValley #60847 HAJ 3 - minimum #175
    I used to be indecisive, now I'm not so sure.

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    White-Valley-2
  • I'm right there with you--2 essential jobs as well (at least one of them involves horses), and I work 7 days a week, and right now I am beyond exhausted! Plus, working retail, workers are so dehumanized by most people--getting in your face while they distance from other shoppers, leaving their wipes and gloves everywhere etc. that it really gets to me some days. My third job is the one that provides me balance through creativity...and unfortunately my third job is...a sportswriter. When there are no sports.

    So, I understand where you are coming from. This, too, shall pass, I think. I probably don't have anything in my barns of interest for you, but if you want straws from any of my boys, I would be happy to send a few your way. Hang in there!
  • I work as a Department of Defense contractor and as a vet tech at an emergency animal clinic on the weekends. Both jobs are exhausting, but my tech position has been insane lately with regular vets closing/not doing much of anything.

    I've worked 75.5 hours in 8 days and another 8+ hours tomorrow. Exhausted and burned out are understatements. I just want to treat myself to more shinies LOL.
    xhajsig
  • Ugh that sounds exhausting! I currently work as a janitor in some offices about 30 minutes away from me in down town (i almost lost this job but the building managers changed their minds). I am considered essential but since so many offices either have no one or very few working, my hours are so drastically reduced. I average 11 hours every 2 weeks. My other job is closed indefinitely. I have literally 5 cents in my bank account. I didn't qualify for the stimulus money because my dad claimed me as a dependent since i still live in his house but since i am 23 i didn't qualify for him to even receive the dependent money. I am desperately trying to sell tack and art commissions but it's not going well. I am also taking a course to become certified in canine massage therapy (I am already master certified in equine massage therapy) but who knows when i will be able to do anything with it The office i am supposed to be working in is $300/month... I've honestly been avoiding my class but I know i need to get back at it. On the bright side, i get to see my best friend today for the first time since the start of quarantine and i am beyond excited! Forget social distancing, i am giving her the biggest hug :D We are gonna go on a trail ride with my sister who is moving tomorrow morning (like 5am) down to New Mexico (from Michigan). I'm gonna be super sad for her to leave but happy she gets to start this new adventure. I can't wait till later this summer when i can save up and fly down for a visit!
    Bluegrass Server: HayesStable - 221755
    Forest Server: AHayesHorses - 4344
    Mesa Server: AshBrookeFarm - 92
  • Thanks for the understanding words, everyone! I’ll send out the rest of the straws soon. I ended up leaving work early today, I haven’t been feeling well at all. :(
    xhajsig

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