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Really need support from my HJ family!
  • As many of you know, I've been dealing with workplace bullying going on 7 months now. The contract changed and I thought it would improve, but they have done absolutely nothing to remedy the situation. I have panic attacks at work, I'm on the highest doses of meds I've ever been on all because of work. I don't enjoy anything I used to love because I'm constantly depressed and fearful of work. In theory I could just quit, but I have 2 horses to pay for and other bills so it's not feasible. I just interviewed for another job Tuesday that I'm absolutely PRAYING I get (and could use any prayers/good vibes/anything you believe).

    HR is sending a rep down on Monday and I refuse to go back to work until they're on the ground, so I'm off the next few days. I was just hoping for support/love from you guys. I do my best to give back and try to make you all happy because I consider you family, but right now I could really use any words of kindness and support.

    And also fingers crossed mushroom goes on sale tomorrow too LOL.

    Thanks for letting me vent... I'd love to hear what makes you happy on this game, your favorite stables, what lines you admire, acts of kindness others have shown you - just overall positivity! Thank you!
    xhajsig
  • We are here for you and love you. If you need to talk don’t hesitate to pm me
    Licensed for Mushroom,Onyx, Watercolor, Ice 13, ice 16, Phantom lace, Phantom Diamond sparkle.
  • I really hope our situation improves, and you will b in my thoughts and prayers! I really hope you get the job!
    Licensed for: Phantom Lace, Chinchilla, Mushroom,
  • It's awful that you're still dealing with this, I remember the last post. I can empathize with your situation and will keep my fingers crossed that you get the new job.
    Bluegrass 272432 | Forest 54250 | Mesa 9056
  • I hope and pray that the new job comes through for you! I can not even imagine what you are going through. I personally would take a long couple of drives to try and clear my head. Just go hang with my horses not ride but just sit and tell them your thoughts. They make great listeners! Know you are in my thoughts and prayers!
  • Oh no!! That sounds terrible! You will be in my thoughts and I'll send you all the good vibes!
  • Prayers, love, support and whatever else you might need. If I can do anything else, just ask. Even if it is something as simple as straws, eggs or horses. Hugs and love from Texas! @};-
    Craven Hill - 86081
    Galway Stallions - 80319
    Thanked by 1SharayahStables
  • Thank you so much for the love, guys!

    CravenHill, honestly straws and eggs would totally cheer me up! I breed mushroom, chinchilla, and ink spot/toner! I’m more than happy to pay for them!!
    xhajsig
  • Would love to give you stuff but I don't have those licenses. I have some rs or maybe free show ponies. color tested ones are rs the rest are show ponies I just haven't spayed yet. https://www.huntandjump.com/member.php?uid=271539
    Post edited by boredaf at 2021-09-30 13:14:03
    Licensed for:
    All Axiom
    Ice: 9, 13, 15-19
    RR: wt, PBC, PBW, Nac
    PHAN: dmsp, lace, sku, hrt, shm, jelly, pmk, bird,crit sun star.
    Other: everything but SPM and jewel
  • It’s ok, I appreciate the gesture! I’d love it more for newer players to keep their stock!!
    xhajsig
  • I'm sorry your workplace hasn't improved yet. I will send my thoughts and prayers and hopes to you that you will get good news about your job interview this Tuesday!
    Was it a nice interview and did it feel good?
    At least it's nice to have a few days off work now, that gives you some breathing space and to get back to yourself!

    Big hug from Northern Europe and when I have time ill sort through my things and send you some stuff, I still have to do that for Menstrosity too but I just don't have the time to sit and seek what would fit the best in your barns. Hopefully somewhere this weekend!

    Big hugs and it will get better someday!❤
    HJ1 160524
    HJ2 136

    Thanked by 1SharayahStables
  • Well ok, if you want anything unlicensed hit me up I have every open and orange gene in my herd.
    Licensed for:
    All Axiom
    Ice: 9, 13, 15-19
    RR: wt, PBC, PBW, Nac
    PHAN: dmsp, lace, sku, hrt, shm, jelly, pmk, bird,crit sun star.
    Other: everything but SPM and jewel
    Thanked by 1SharayahStables
  • Thank you so much, your kind words mean a lot to me!
    xhajsig
  • I'm new, so I wasn't aware of your situation. I just want to let you know that thoughts, prayers and good vibes are coming your way. I hope the situation improves soon.
    ID: 273497
    Licensed for everything but Ice 6, 11, 14, 19, 20 and Phantom
    Ghosts.
  • Thank you very much for your kindness!
    xhajsig
  • It's been a long time since my worst workplace problems, but I'll share my story. Maybe it will give you a chuckle. After all these years, I can look back and just shake my head.

    My college major was Latin and I wanted to teach it, but when I graduated college in the mid 60's, Latin had fallen out of favor as not much applicable to the "modern" world. I ended up in a classroom with slower learning 3rd graders. One thing that was never mentioned in any of my classes at college was tips on classroom management. Needless to say, as a rather shy young adult, those kids turned out to be a classroom from hell and ran right over me. I was asked to resign at midterm. Sigh.

    I did find other employment and eventually married a college friend. Strangely enough, when our daughter was in 9th grade (if I'm remembering correctly), I began teaching an after school Latin class in high school because there was some interest in Latin rising up again. I ended up teaching Latin by distance learning by closed circuit TV, with a fair number of students in the local high school and other students in schools usually at least a couple of hours away. I had a ball, and I think my students enjoyed it as well.

    Anyway, my 4 or 5 months in a 3rd grade classroom make me feel great sympathy for you as you struggle with a persistently unpleasant co-worker.

    Good luck with the potential new job. I hope you are hired and find a better group of people surrounding you there. [-O< >:D<

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  • Thank you SandyCreek! What a funny story!
    xhajsig
  • Great news on the new job! (Im being proactive and saying you already got it!) hehe

    Ive got a workplace sort of humor story for ya.

    Ive never been a vindictive person, but I worked for a company that did payroll and benefits for other companies. One of our clients payroll was never correct for the first paycheck of the month. No one could figure it out, for years. So all they did was patch this here, patch that there, make sure you run this program, yada yada yada

    Since I was the program consultant (I told the programmers how to fix things) I sat down and figured it out. It took me a few weeks but I had it ironed out.

    Well, I told my supervisor that morning, that I had the solution, and I would have it sent over before end of day.

    They asked if I had the specs later that day, and I said yea, the email was about to go out. Then before I hit enter, I had a call from HR saying I was being let go!

    i said. Ok, then you arent getting my research. I deleted every bit of research, notes and programming specs I had done before I handed in my computer to the company.

    There... you figure it out. lol I hear that they lost the contract later due to their ineptedness of retaining a proper payroll system.

    Shoud have never fired me.. lol

    probably bad of me, but to this day I never felt sorry
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    I currently own all licenses

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    id 271541
  • I was just notified confidentially from my new project manager I got the job! Now to await the official offer! But praise God! I’ve been praying so hard for this!
    xhajsig
  • Whoo! I'm so happy for you!
    Licensed for:
    All Axiom
    Ice: 9, 13, 15-19
    RR: wt, PBC, PBW, Nac
    PHAN: dmsp, lace, sku, hrt, shm, jelly, pmk, bird,crit sun star.
    Other: everything but SPM and jewel
  • Congratulations!
    ID: 273497
    Licensed for everything but Ice 6, 11, 14, 19, 20 and Phantom
    Ghosts.
  • Congratulations!!!
  • awesome! congrats!
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    I currently own all licenses

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    id 271541
  • How amazing! Congratulations! =D>

    I joined HaJ a few months ago, so I don’t totally know your workplace situation. From what you described, it definitely sounds like a difficult environment to be successful in.

    I hope this new opportunity will open some doors for the better.

    Best Wishes!

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