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- Ammit September 2023
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- Fiddler 2:14PM
Life update
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I kept this off of here for awhile, but it may need to be said just because I will be disappearing off and on again. I was offline for awhile the past few months as I have a big life change coming. After 17 yrs, I have finally called it quits and stopped hiding all the problems in my marriage. I am heading for a divorce. Long way to go still, but it may cause an upheaval in my gaming time. If anyone needs to get ahold of me for anything please mail me, the game does still send me an email on that. ;)
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I hope and pray you get through this ; divorce is hard on your self esteem, as well as emotionally. Please make sure you take a little time everyday to remind your self you are worthy, and give your self positive re enforcement. I ve been through it as well and realize now the things i could have done differently to remind my self I matter
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I've been through a divorce before, and the best advice I can give is to hang in there and get therapy for yourself, and to remind yourself that it's worth the price of freedom for yourself. Toxic relationships are just not worth it.
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I hope this change brings you peace, you've taken a big step and I send you strength to see it through!
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Just to give a new update. I've retained a lawyer, the paperwork is in the process of being drafted...and he is lying to the lawyer about being on my insurance. Luckily I've got enough documentation I can back up what I've said to them. Lots of things having to be clarified that I never even gave a thought to before now. Slow process, but moving forward just the same.
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I hate to be this person ; make sure you ve updated your will as well
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I've given my parents that paperwork. Unlikely to need it, but it's there. Only thing I have still to do *is* remove him from all the insurances, but I can't until after the divorce is finalized.
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Hearing on the divorce is set for October 13thThanked by 1Leefe
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Sounds good. You are almost done !
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I've done one and need to start working on my second one.
You got this! You seem to have all your bases covered with documentation on everything. It's hard but you will have so much more peace afterwards.
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An update I wasn't expecting...there will be no divorce. He passed away Monday night. He was found in floor Sunday, and told the person who found he to lay him in the bed and leave him alone. Sheriff responded to a well check Monday morning and found him deceased.
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Wow. That must be an immense shock. Sorry things all turned out like this.Need to contact me? Read this first.
I sometimes get busy and miss things. If your private message, question, etc. gets missed please ping me so I can follow up with you. I am also always happy to explain or clarify. (HAJ does not have a customer service email, please send me a forum message! )
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It wasn't something I was expecting that's for sure. I knew he wasn't eating well, but didn't expect for him to pass anytime soon. I'm doing alright with it, and my kids are adjusting.
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Oh my goodness, that must have been a stunning shock!
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Thank you, @Fiddler
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Holy Cow Blu! Please remember this is in NO way your fault. I know you are processing Huge emotions right now, please be kind to yourself. Please allow your self to grieve over what was happening in both of your lives and allow your self the time to be peaceful in your mind. We are all here for you my friend, alot of us have been through the emotional rollercoaster you are on one way or the other. Please be kind to yourself !Thanked by 1Herzeloyde
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Sorry that things went sideways. We are here for you though. <3